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Rahiman dhaga prem ka, mat todo chatkaay—don’t break the thread of love, says Indian poet Rahim.

Kamlesh Tripathi

    The wisdom of Indian poet Rahim (officially titled Khan-i-Khanan, meaning ‘Khan of Khans’) and Roman emperor and Stoic philosopher Marcus Aurelius, though separated by centuries, cultures, and geography, can be beautifully tied together through their shared understanding of human relationships.

    Rahim sees ‘human relationship’ as a delicate thread of love. Whereas Marcus Aurelius sees human beings as branches of one great tree. For Rahim, when the thread breaks, it may be tied again, but the knot remains. For Marcus Aurelius, when a branch is separated from the tree, it may be grafted back, but it will never be quite the same as a branch that continued to grow in natural unity with the tree.

    Both are therefore saying something very profound. We are all well-connected, but the breaking of that connection has consequences not only for the other person but also for your own self. Rahim’s popular couplet (Doha) says:

    “Rahiman dhaga prem ka, mat todo chatkaay;

     Toote se phir na jude, jude gaanth pari jaay.”

    Do not break the thread of love abruptly. Once broken, it may be joined again, but the knot will remain.

    Marcus Aurelius extends this idea from personal love to the whole of society. A person who hates or withdraws from another human being is like a branch cutting itself away from the tree. In separating himself from his neighbour, he unknowingly separates himself from the larger human community.

    Both Rahim and Marcus offer wisdom, hope and caution. A broken branch can sometimes be grafted back; and a broken relationship can sometimes be restored. Human beings possess the extraordinary capacity to forgive, reconcile and begin again. But repeated breaks make restoration increasingly difficult.

    Perhaps the two metaphors can therefore be joined into one: Love is the thread that binds the branches of humanity into one tree. When we break the thread, we wound a relationship. When we cut ourselves away from another person, we wound the larger tree of society. We may later tie the thread or graft the branch back, but the knot or scar always reminds us of what had happened.

    That is why the wisdom of both Rahim and Marcus Aurelius ultimately teaches us not merely to repair relationships, but to protect them before they break.

    Rahim gives us the thread. Marcus gives us the tree. Together they give us a philosophy of human connectedness: we belong to one another, and every unnecessary separation diminishes the whole.

Written and posted by Kamlesh Tripathi

Author, poet and columnist Kamlesh Tripathi

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